"JUDGEMENT COMES FROM THE CONTEXT AND EXPERIENCE OF THE JUDGER."
THIS IS ME ldv
AND WHAT DO I WRITE NEXT...
Of course I want to write the very thing that will peak your interest. The kind that means we will get to work together or you becoming my number 1 fan and helping me spread the word!
All me, me, me...
Hopefully you will do that anyway ;)
so what can i WRITE THAT WILL BE OF INTEREST TO YOU?
Allow me to introduce the word 'Designedly'. Meaning intentionally, purposely and deliberately.
Finally, after years of feeling a little odd, not quite fitting in with the 'norms' and the strain of judgement from others, I am able to articulate my purpose, belief and mission.
To get more people LIVING designedly and businesses WORKING designedly.
EVER FELT LIKE THIS?
Glad i'm not alone!
Take the quote at the top of this page:
"Judgement comes from the context and experience of the judger." - LDV
How often are we living our lives based on the expectations of others and society? Recognising here that those expectations and peoples judgements come from their own past experiences, beliefs and learnt behaviours.
They are not necessarily truths, yet most of the time we accept them as truths. Take a look...
Wow, what's the secret sauce, I wanna know.
YOUR Too young to be a manager at 19
YOU CAN'T BE A MUM AND REACH THE AMBITIONS YOU HAVE
YOU NEED EXPERIENCE AND CONNECTIONS TO HOST AN EVENT
YOUR CRAZY FOR LEAVING THE SECURITY OF CORPORATE WORLD
WHY WOULD SOMEONE ASK YOU TO SPEAK AT AN EVENT?
They wON'T HIRE INTERNALLY for DIRECTOR OF SALES, NOONE QUALIFIED
Luckily I didn't listen or accept any of these and this is just a few...
So what are YOUR truths? What do YOU believe in? Forget everyone else and stop comparing, you don't have the context behind anyone's story or Instagram post.
My experiences, from anxiety attacks, early stages of cervical cancer and my son having open heart surgery at just 5 days old (just to name a few) have allowed me to get to where I am today, to make the most of every moment, to live a life true to me.
If you had a blank canvas to design your life and work, what would you create?